Michael Boiger

[I am conducting research in Japan during November-December and am not available for sessions during that period]

Sometimes, relationships can become stuck, move in circles, or cannot find a way forward. My aim is to create a safe and accepting environment in which new ideas and relationship dynamics can emerge. As a systemic therapist, I concentrate on the interactions and dynamics between individuals, on the different voices that want to be heard, and on finding solutions for troubling relationship patterns. Depending on the situation, I also like to incorporate emotion-focused and other experiential approaches into my practice.

I enjoy working with clients of diverse backgrounds. This includes intercultural and LGBT couples, the challenges they face, and the resources they bring. While I have expertise in cultural, relational and sexual diversity, I consider clients to be the true experts on their own lives. Consequently, I believe that my expertise lies not in knowing clients but in getting to know them and—in the process—creating the conditions for change to take place.

Although I primarily work with couples, I do see individual clients who are seeking help with relationship issues.

I grew up in Southern Germany and left my small hometown to live in the Canadian wilderness after high school. Since then, I studied in Germany and Japan, worked as a (post)doctoral researcher in Belgium, and returned once more to Germany. At the moment, I am dividing my time between Berlin and Amsterdam, where I continue to do research at the intersection of culture, close relationships, and emotions. The experience of moving between cultures has left a deep impression on me and remains an important driving force in my life. I remain deeply intrigued by the different ways in which the human potential for connection and intimacy can manifest itself—and how we connect across these differences.